Having Regret in Life?? No, not at all

Okay, so the title itself is explaining my story!!!!

We all have very busy lives or I can say that we all are trying to occupy ourselves anytime and every time. Why it is, is there something which we want to get in future?? Is there something which we want to achieve desperately? Or is there something happened in past and gave us a bad experience and don’t want to recurrence/recall those moment?? In a simple manner we have named it “Regret”.

Today I’ve chosen third point to write. When we talk about past, generally people have some regrets.

Mujhe ye krna chahiye tha..mujhe ye nahi bolna chahiye tha…kash mai waha ja pati..kash mai us din yha nai aata, Kash mere pas ye hota…and many more…

Sometime we feel if that was happened or not happened, today’s picture would been different.  This feeling is evil I think, because sometime it goes deep and get worse day by day. People get depressed, has no interest in life, they feel helpless and alone in the crowd.You will ask me that do I have any regrets. My answer is big NO.  This can be your answer too, if you want.

I always think positive and having jam-packed positive energy till date. Even my life is not bed of roses just like everyone else's. I also face so many good and bad things in my day to day life. But I count those as an experience, not regret. So, here I want to say that I don’t have any regret in life. 

Do what you can do. Speak what you think is right. Don’t go where you don’t want to go. Situation go wrong sometimes. Your actions can create bad thing. Your words can get misunderstood. You will feel bad. You will feel hurt. But this is normal.  Absolutely normal is better word I think.

Sometimes when I go into the flashback and evaluate those experience I find having learnt the lesson of life from them. Even all flash backs have some good and bad things which in turn teach us many real things. We cannot change our past, similarly there is no good to have regrets for our past action or circumstances. 

Take those as your arms and step ahead with it. Our life has many things on which we can rely on. We can be proud of  and we can learn to have no regrets.

Be Generous! Be Happy! Be Thankful!

Alohaaa !!!!!!