Happy Birthday to Me

Today is my birthday.. :-) Wish to me many many happy returns of the day and all the luck. God always bless me. I will be happy as always. I get that entire thing what I want.

You must be thinking that this girl may be completely crazy. Apne b'day pr apne ko hi wish kar rhi hai. Isn't it?

Actually till today I celebrate my birthday every time but there is no special things in it. In childhood parent at list try their level best to feel special on birthday but in my case parent use to forgot my birthday every time. Even till date, I call them to wish me because it’s my b'day (so sad) and I really need their love and affection at list on this particular day. And I am not so lucky that my other family members or close friends (which are very limited in number :-P) give me a special surprise on my b’day. So I thought why not I try to make my birthday colorful. Wishing me happy birthday and the funny part is I bought a packet of balloon, a small chunk of cake, one big bottle of cold drink and a king size pack of CHIPS to my place and wish me happy birthday.

May be most of you think this girl really required a ticket of RANCHI to do her complete mental medication. But still I think, I will be happiest on this special day... and wish me MANY MANY HAPPY RETURNES OF THE DAY….!

Well, aap log bhi try kar skte ho..sometimes it feel good !!!!

See You Alohaaa!!!!!!!

Attention… Attention… Attention!!!!!!

“Ladies and gentleman pay your attention. First of all I would like to say thank you for coming. Give your blessing to my child and now enjoy this party.” The above line is an obvious example to get attention of anyone. Normally all of us are use to this type of phrases. At any party, function, celebration spot, college canteen, theatre, cinema, railway station and also at election time there is only one condemnation “PAY YOUR ATTENTION”. Is this really works? Today I’m writing about value of that.

1. I am starting with story of a wedding party. The Host wants to share his or her happiest moment with us. That’s why he or she through party and say like “Pay your attention. Bless newly married couple and thank you for coming”. But guest side the picture is different. Everyone wants to pay full attention at foodstuff menu and bless their appetite. At that time Food take all the attention rather the host.
2. During the election every party worker organizes some rally or meeting and the leader present speech. Generally leaders come by jet or several cars with many bodyguards in rural area of the country. The sea of people is over there. The first line of every speech is “Pay you attention. The leader wants to say something about work progress in future and more...” At that place people give all attention on that aircraft and those gun who clutch by bodyguard. The leader’s speech is not important to hear because he or she will not speak new thing. They repeat all old dialogues. So off course they don’t deserve attention.
3. At the railway station in every single minute we hear one type of announce. “Pay your attention “and they provide us information about train time schedule, platform number. And the great passengers give the attention at different thing like boys give attention at stare the girls. Thief is at pocket, bags, jewels who wear the ladies and also mobile phones.
4. Now in the classroom no one forgot all those masttii and sharart. The teachers warn again and again to give attention on book and the lecture. But students (specially the last benchers) are always busy to gossip with friends and someone is busy with cell phone. And some people are in sleep mode and flying high in dream. Few of them are more interested to do mimicry cracking. There are so many cases which I didn't mention here. But yes the memories of all this type of thing is lot.

I am sharing this topic because few of our lifeline we missed cause of lack of attentiveness. Most of the time we are more concern about the side factors or start giving attention which don’t deserve attention anymore. Cause of that we loose our precious time and suddenly realized we are far behind the real deserving position. Don’t know why this thing is happen, I think its human nature. What else to say, most of the time I found friends getting bored after reading my blog. But sorry folks can’t help it, I found the only way to kill my time just writing blogs like this..! :P :P

Anyway the bottom line is never pay attention which really irrelevant or less important to us and live life with FULL ONN dhaamaal…

See You Alohaaa ……

The Idiotic Funny Character (Part – 2)

It’s a real pleasure to get pretty good comments on the 1st part of the post. Now I am publishing the remaining part of The Idiotic Funny Character. Once again thanks a lot all for your precious time and comments. Perhaps I stop break the spell and let you all enjoy the remaining part..! Here we go…

Doctor: This is very unfortunate incident after all. The lad is younger than me is studding at some collage and also do have a FULL TIME girl friend, good behavior well mannered guy. One fine morning he went to his friends place and he found his mobile was not working due to some network failure. He was expecting call from his Girl Friend, so he informed her about network failure made a call from his friend’s mobile, till now everything was OK... But to make his GF impressed he tried various quick solutions to recover from network failure. After started doctoring with his SIM card firstly he put his SIM inside his mouth and tries to clean it. But unfortunately he found the same result. After a while he did the next Surgery with SIM, he chewed it softly and tried to bend it a little. But alas..! This time poor SIM could not sustain the touchier and came to an end gave the message that ‘SIM CARD NOT DETECTED, INSERT SIM’. Yes... You could easily imagine the reaction of Doctor-Sahib’s GF after that. She starts shouting and fuming on him. This kind of intelligent person comes under DOCTOR category.

Pigheaded: Well, I met 2 or 3 people of this type. In one line definition “Jahan dekhi nhi ladki whi khol dee khidkii”. This incident was proved that the guy was very unlucky. In first look he looks like a very easy and youngster but he is older than us. Still he never stops trying to spend time with girls..! One day he stole an unknown girl’s mobile number from his friend’s cell phone. Then as usual start talking with her, eventually the girl came to know some how that the guy try to do dating with girls weekly basis. So she wants to give him a good lession and try tight his all loose nuts of his head. About a week later he fixed one meeting with that girl and obviously he was very excited and very happy cause with in one week the girl ready to meet..

The dating starts with a chowmin then cola and continued till the guy found a big hole inside his pocket. Still Mr. Incredible was happy to spend time with girl and expect to spend more time with her. Finally the girl intentionally planned to sit under a tree where often police raid took place. The guy tried his various skills to impress her but ooh poor boy..! Within 5-10 minutes a police come near to them and couches that guy. All heroic effort turned down within a second. Finally he managed that police spending lots of money and don’t ask how he managed money..! Luckily he had few coins left in his pocket to return back to his home. After that day every one was expecting that he might change his attitude but next day again he did the same…LOL. Any way friends I’m damn confident that this Pigheaded ITEM piece will never change.

Well, now the last but not the least most idiotic funny character is me. How..! He he he, I gone out for my office and after traveled half way I realized I wear home floaters rather than office sandals. Similarly gone to some shop forgot to take the changes back from the shopkeeper and returned to home. Laugh like an idiot when other person laughs, without knowing the reason. I don’t know how many times I spoiled my own work and create SEENS like those by my own hand and achieved the category of idiotic person in-front-of others. And lastly one foolish thing is here that I write about these incident and people. I think I have never criticized so many people at a time together...: P so now stop criticizing others, APPNA KOI KAAM NAHI HAI KYA...?? LOL Hope you like this article.

See you all ALOHAA..

The Distance in Thoughts

I was thinking for a long while about the title. This topic is about the cultural and social difference between two neighbor state of India, BIHAR and WEST BENGAL. Obviously the people from different places have different tradition, language, opinion and many more. I could easily realize the difference because I use to spend quite a while from both the places.

As I was born and brought up in Bihar, I spent most of the time there so I am familiar with almost every good and bad thing.

In respect of living in both the places is not much different but the lifestyle and civilization both are autonomous.

As we all know, education is one of the most essential thing for each and every person. It is a necessary element of life not only to get a better job but also establish a well maintained living wage for today’s fast growing world. From very beginning people of BIHAR don’t take study as serious issue and it creates lliteracy, unemployment, poverty and lack of ideal thoughts. Yes friends, in my point of view an ideal thought means a lot. And the only way to achieve this is by a good quality education. Is it necessary if you have a good qualification or degree that means your thought is mature..?? Obviously No…! But if you have a proper education then a positive and influential thought automatically came to your mind and I think this thought can change you and your lifestyle. Yes due to lack of education various other side catalysts is also over there such as political pressure, general public awareness those I am not considering here.

Now at KOLKATA people knows the value of education very well. People know how fast the world is changing and the only way to synchronize with it a quality education. They know the need of life and through proper education they find better way to achieve those need, even they give value to education cause of that West Bengal is far ahead than Bihar.

There is one more thing still follow as tradition in Bihar, the difference between girl child and a boy. If you are a parent of a male child you may think yourself as KING of your place. Similarly if you have a daughter you’re the most wretched person in the world. And here the difference starts, they spend almost everything for their son’s study or to establish them in a good position but in case of daughter they think twice to continue give study till 10th class.

From very little age the family member start convincing and brain washing their daughter asking question like ‘What you going to do after complete higher education?? Finally you have to marry, take care of your family, prepare food for your family and give birth a dozen of children.’

I surprised when I heard the same dialog from very well educated Bihari people and most of them are older than me…!

But in kolkata this theory is totally wrong. I read it some where when I was a kid that West Bengal is a ladies first state. Here no one differentiate between boy and girl. The family maintains and grooms by combining effort and support of both husband and wife.

In kolkata people are educated but way of thoughts is not positive for everyone. To achieve the supremacy they are more deceptive. Here people feel jealous to see everyone rising or doing well. The western culture spreads by blind imitation and people follow it with elegance. Here Bengali people like to speak in bangla and listen to bangla. If they meet any non-bengali they never think to experiment new things rather than try to speak bangla. And they whisper in soft voice “Bangla Bolte paro na?? Try koro kichu dine modhyee sikhe jabe.”. (You don’t know Bengali?? Try it you can learn in few days) like that….

And the most funny thing is that even few of them consider Bengali as Indian national Language.. Even they think Bengali is the official language used every where, GOD can help them…

I heard the experience of most of the Bengali people may be gone outstation (out side West Bengal) due to some work after returning back and find the unbelievable similarity between all of them.

Most of things ok to them except three things they found wired.

First, “Sob ee thik chiloo.. Kintu kau ee BANGLA bolte pare na.”. (Means no one know Bengali except him)

Second, Sudhu aamar sathhe Partiality korchilo.. (Only do partiality with him and give favor to other. Otherwise he is the only supreme)

Third, Jai bolo khawa-r gulo aamader motto testee na.. (The food is not as tasty as ours)

No one is perfect whether it related to places, person or some other things. But we always try to make perfect. Today I feel good to see that Bihar and biharies are tried to revolutionize themselves. The thoughts are changing. The lifestyle is changing. I thought sometimes that the voyage between both places is approximate eight hours but the distance of compassion is too much. The culture, traditions and language are opposite to each other. Why the difference in life style and thinking style.

Every one knows thousands of reasons and obstacles are there but very few noble people are available and putting their tremendous effort to reduce the “Distance in thoughts”.

I try to keep myself in Second category and try to give my little effort, in which category you think you belongs to..?

See you Alohaaaa

The Efficiency = Output/Input

Most of us know the simple definition of EFFICIENCY, the work done vs. input provided to do that work. We use this term in case going to purchase any technical gadget or motor related product. But sometime the meaning goes beyond the technical boundary and we use it for the efficiency of person. And that efficiency done most important role in career and life. For example Chetan Bhagat is the most EFFICIENT writer.

Now the real story starts and question is how we going to calculate it…? According to me most of the time we miscalculate the efficiency of any person in terms of there personal or professional life. Just take a look.

Few years ago I joined a company as software trainee. I was not the only one who joined there were almost 30 other newbie. There were various people from various location and different technical knowledge.

For me everything was not in my favors such as new location, new language and new professional life. I still remember my 1st training session when I was fully nervous and confused. I could not understand a single word of that extra fatty guy (the trainer…!) first two days I tried to hide myself inside the desk unfortunately 3rd day I couch by the trainer. On 5th day I realized that the job was not for me. I was not up to the mark to attend that training. And that fat, round faced trainer scolded me in-front-of entire class because I don’t know Bengali and the entire lecture bounced through my head. Then he gave around half-n-hour speech about language flexibility and examples like “when I was in ANTARTICCA I use to talk to penguins...” this and that bla bla bla… In my language “Meri Tho Band Baji Hui Thi”

Now something about the other colleague, I found most of the persons were elder than me with good command in computer as well as various languages (accept Hindi) few of them already have job experience enough smarter than me in all aspects. After each fortnight we had half moth assessment test usually I got the last or second last position, but I never gave up.

I start comparing between all the other persons. Try to realize how they think, copy cat their action. Finally the term efficiency came to my mind. After one and half moth we all became good friends and distributed in various groups, I found few of them came from very strong background and they already passed much tougher circumstances than this in their educational or professional life. That training session was nothing in-front-of them cause of that their performance was great and they always got the top rank. I concluded them as most EFFICIENT, but I was miscalculated. How…!

I got the answer at the end of the training, at the time of final test I got the 1st position… my performance drastically accelerated within few months. Yes…! This is true I found few of my very good friends and helping hand those who helped me in enhance my performance and perfection.

Dear friends I don’t know my view is correct or not, the judgment is expected from your review. But I realized the efficiency lack one more factor, called TIME FACTOR. So the Efficiency is ‘the work done vs. input provided to do that work IN LESSER SPAN OF TIME’

See you soon ALOHAA !!!!!!

The Idiotic Funny Character

Before start this post I need to confess something…! After writing few posts in past two months I found most of the writings are given the same flavor. Before all reader comes to a decision that I must be a fan of KARAN JOHAR’S films because all films made by KJ full of sentiments and makes people cry, eventually after a long deliberation I decided to write something about Idiotic Funny things...

In our day to day life we meet different types of people, but these special creations are universal. Due to their idiotic behavior they got a life time achievement award and usually called them either ITEM or MAMU. I have encountered such cases at various places. My main purpose to write this topic makes people laugh and no hard filling associate with it.

Meritorious: I met this MAMU one year earlier in my office. Short height, decent looking chubby face person, at first look any body could portray a good impression about him but eventually we start realize the truth. He thought he is the most intelligent and knowledgeable guy in the universe. Always he tried to show his skills, knowledge and experiences of career (although I think he eats our head...! P ). Even in case of life he experienced everything for example if you say ‘I know little bit Dance’ his reply would be ‘My Uncle Gold Medallist by Michele-Jackson’. One fine morning he suggested me to take his help if required to enhance my English skill (as my English is not so good).

Initially I was happy to learn something but finally disappointed to hear his great copyrighted conversation “You Caannot e-mmaagin last night I attended a wedding Seeremony and daa fuud was so Daaliciouaass. I laavv daa fuud vaary maachh”, in fraction of second I try to understand his BANGLISH (bangle+ English) language. After 10 or 15 days of hard dedication I hardly understand 9.5% meaning of the above ‘you can’t imagine I was attended a wedding ceremony last night and food was very tasty. I love the food very much’. Now in social responsibility according to him firstly he is a ‘Bengali’ then an ‘Indian’.

He believes in cast such as Bengali (use to call that BANGALI-JAAT) is one cast and Non-Bengali (AA-BANGALI-JAAT) is another although normal human beings believe in Hindu, Muslim, and Sikh as Cast /JAAT. Ohoo he also believes Bihar and Uttar Pradesh are two states where communication language is Hindi rather than this other states use Bangla as mother tongue even he disagree that Hindi is our national language..LOL In case of girls his view is ‘All girls are bad and they are un-trustable element, they fall in love because of money, they play with boy’s emotion and many more. Some time I tried to figure out whether this chap is from planet EARTH or some other Alien planet, what ever…! At list this object get a good position at my blog as MERITORIOUS IDIOT...

Smart: In this case people thought he or she is smarter than the smartest. There are two of my relatives belongs to in this category. One is younger than me by maximum one year and another is elder. Both are expert in all fields except study. I think they must join up the Saas-Bahu daily soap of Ekta Kapoor. In Ekta Kapoor’s serial ladies are enemies of her other family members, they always try to make life hell of other members. Here also both are very interested in others personal affair except their own. Both spent their valuable time to think how to make others life hell and sometimes succeeded in their plans. They compared her with kids. And she talked about friend’s boyfriend in front of children. And talked like very clever and smart girl “agar mai exams me fail nai hoti to baki logo ki tarah mai bhi 4-5 thousand kma skti thi”. Don’t know when this type of ITEM peace will changed…Finally get a number here known by me as Over Smart Idiot..

Innocent: Yes, this type of people has genuine reason to make us laugh. Due to lack of knowledge they show their funny sides so they are innocent in this matter. This is about a girl, very cute, sweet and fun-loving. She has High-Definition mobile but doesn’t know how to use its properties even unknown about all the services provided to her mobile. She loves music (as I do...), one day she came to me and asked for some songs for her mobile. So I started transferring songs from my mobile to her, after completion of 1-2 songs her mobile memory card overloaded.

To complete transfer all songs I suggested her ‘you delete few of your old songs... Then we got enough space to transfer remaining songs.’ She ready to do it in one leg and deleted her few old Bengali songs. After deleting all those songs I found more than enough space beyond my expectation. When she realized she gave me a big smile because now she can put few more extra... She started peeping and tried to understand and gave me a wise look..! After several minute of silence finally she asked me with curious eyes, "Bengali ggan te khub besii power hoyee naa kii..etoo space ki koree holoo. eii na kii besi jayegaaa nee" ( Do Bengali songs have more POWERFULL than other language songs..! How it took so large space?)

Initially I was perplexed about her easy conclusion of Song Theory after few second I start laughing. Later on I realized that she really don’t have enough brain to understand how this technology works. So she got the position of INNOCENT idiot..!

Eehhh… I am quite hesitant about how this post is going, because I have never wrote this kind of truth before…LOL. So I’m winding up this session here. If you like this please asks for more. I have few more ITEM similar kind of this I will post it as 2nd Part of this.

Till then…!

See you aloohaaa…

The Lone Early Days

How people remember their childhood days? Obviously when you see any kid is playing in park or walking by holding their parents’ hand. Or when you see any small kid is crazy about any unnecessary things. Some people recall it in other way..! May be, they see those kids putting their hard labour to fulfill their family responsibility at very small age.

In my case the childhood was bit closer to the last option…!

Here I’m writing about my childhood. The good and bad moments that I had faced during my childhood. That moment which bring tears in my eyes and very precious smile on my face also. Such a childhood changed me and my way of thinking the entire life. And off course such early days gave me enough potential and maturity in little age…

I still remember that day when I was obstinate about a pretty dress. I wanted that dress but mom didn’t give it. I had cried a lot and finally slept. I had never cried before for any thing as I did on that day. That was the 1st day of my childhood when I was crazy about something.

My first obstinacy, but alas..! I could not make it finally. Few days later I heard my mother was talking to someone about me. She murmured in soft voice

“If I entertain the obstinacy of Guriya(my pet name), all the other child those who are younger to her start follow her. And we can not fulfill the obstinacy of all kids. I think she is enough grown up to tolerate the situation and she should realize the truth, she is the eldest daughter and should know all her responsibilities as early as possible. She should sacrifice all the liberation whether she like or don’t.”

Initially I tried to understand the meaning and the gravity of the situation but as that moment I was too young to understand the meaning of all the words. But gradually I started to realize the meaning of that conversation. My Jaws got stiffer trying to adopt all the responsibility in little age. Couple of days later I stopped complaining for anything and I first try to avoid which I love the most (even till date…) the IDIOT BOX. Most of the time I watched cinema, listening to music etc... Gradually implies the same to other stuff like delicious food, playing stuff like toy or any good dress.

Gradually I grew up, at the age of eight I found work load on my little shoulder. Usually my daily time table was as follows

“At morning first I helped my mom at kitchen then went to tuition. After coming back, I had to prepare myself and my younger sister for school. After returning back from school again helped my mom at kitchen then if I had enough time,i was asked to take care of my little sister. Finally at night I had to finish my pending home work and went to bed.”

Every day I saw kids of my age playing around outside my home. I tried to join them several times but I failed. When I was in 5th standard I expertise in most of the kitchen job. Those hard works made me mature at very little age in all aspects.

The only thing which I ever got in childhood that was study related stuffs. I was very fond of reading story books and current affairs. Since one year old, I was much closed with my ‘BABA’ (my grandfather) and yes I’m the most beloved granddaughter of him till today. Since the age of one I followed him every where 24X7 basis. If any one tried to hurt me he used his full potential and start commotion. At the age of 6-7 Baba realized my interest in reading books, he handed over me various magazines and GK books. Due to take care of my younger sister I stopped playing outside and to avoid loneliness start reading and listing songs.

In-spite-of various boundaries and restriction whenever I got chance I stole money from my grandmother or stole fruit from neighbor’s tree and then mother caught me red handed and thrashed me. There are so many incidents which I could not write here but still that time and those days are very precious to me. I know that childhood memories are very-very special for every people, the perfect alloy of bitter and sweet experiences.

Perhaps till today I love the LONELINESS and my best friends are book, song and cinema. Well I realize my early days this manner and say to myself that " Jo bhi hota hai ache ke liye hota hai" !!!!!!!

See you soon Alohaa...

A Drop Of Tear And The Sea Of Emotion

Why it happen to our LIFE??

I was just wondering the reasons of various circumstances when we have met with the strangers, and most of the times their first expression leave a stretch marks on our forehead..!

Gradually after spending some time they become good friends or neighbor. After few days we started sharing our good and bad experience of life, celebrating various moment, joy & sorrow, start pulling legs to each other and so on, finally consider them as a good BUDDY..

This story is all about that unnamed relation…

The same natural phenomenon happens with me and my cute neighborhood…! 3-4 months earlier a South Indian family shifted to the ground floor of my PG (Paying Guest, here I use to stay for a long while..!). If we do real count total number of the family members 2-and HALF, husband wife and there Teeny kid name HASINI.. The small straight hair, round face, pillowing soft, very cute smile and too loud voice like a Cracker, thats the unique signature of her. She use to wear PAYAL (an Anklet usually made by silver) sometimes. When she walks her small footsteps create a soothing sound. When unnecessarily she starts laughing, I feel that we all (except her) a bunch of idiot sitting in-front-of her and she has enough reason to laugh!!

The one line definition of HASINI is a small package of Joy and excitement tightly rapped by giggling smile. She makes our life little adventurous and all time happy. But there is one person who was extremely close to her. Her name is “Lolita”. She is real hard working always taken care of us. I call her in short name “Lily”. She is very loving and caring by nature. Hasini is just crazy about her. Sometimes she forgot her real mom. She played with her, had food with her and even slept in her lap. Wo av bas bolna sikh rhi thi. Lily starts with small words like dad(father), mom(mother), didi(sister) etc and try to talk every time. But Hasini always show her don’t care attitude. She ignored all the time what Lily try to teach and make funny sound Buuuu..uuu flapping her lips.

One day we found some unknown voice coming outside from the door called ‘Lolita’. After peeping through the eye hole of the door she found no one outside but again the same voice start shouting. When she opened the door she found the ‘1ft and few-Inches’ girl Hasini standing outside with a cute dress and big smile. A fraction of second Lolita can not believe her ears that HASINI start talking and her 1st word is LOLITA. Gradually Hasini start speaking in a rapid speed. Her mother was also very cool and good by nature, she gave enough privilege to us to play with her baby and considered us as their good friends, most of the time she left HASINI with us without any hesitation.

We were three people from three different places Bihar, West Bengal and Hyderabad. We used to share our culture, languages and traditions very often. I am very curious to know about places, languages and the culture of Hyderabadi people.

One day we heard that Hasini is going to Hyderabad with her family and she will never come back to Kolkata. Her father was promoted to a better job in his own city. It’s very bad feeling for everyone. For me it’s normal incident because I think I am quite grown up and experienced the same early phase of life. But for Lily, it’s kind of heart breaking and shocking moment ever faced in her life. One more reason she was very close with Hasini and her mother.

Finally the day came when Hasini had to go to Hyderabad. That day was different than another day. Lily can’t stop her tears. Her tears were success to cried bhabi (hasini’s mother) also. That moment can be very normal for another people but not for me. Hasini gave us an unforgettable time. Lily never forget her. As Lily separated from outside world her all compression starts with Hasini, most of the imagination surrounded by Hasini. From the day of leaving to till today she finds the same emptiness in her heart for Hasini.

This is only one story of our life. In such a way so many relations creates and breaks very short span of time and few days later its became a thin line to our memory and finally obsoletes. Whenever the same incident repeated I memorized my old good and bad memories. And always ask me ‘Why it happens to our life?‘

See you soon ALOHAAA!!!!

IT'S ME

Hello folks, this is Sharda, before introducing myself let me focus some light on my first published blog. As I told this is my first written blog please forgive me if anything posted wrong and sorry for the inconvenience in advance..

All people do have some story..!! Story of their life related to their side circumstances as they spend every moment with their family and friends. People have there own way of thinking and have different opinion. This blog is about our LIFE, the SOCIETY where we use to live, the THOUGHT that float through our mind and the story of SUCCESS and FAILURE. I am expecting visitor and friends drop their opinion and suggestion. I’m not here to prove anything to anyone. This is my personal blog and I will share my feeling that I face day to day in my life.

About me..! I was born and brought up at ‘Bind’, a small village in Bihar. Near by historical place “Nalanda”, very famous for the Nalanda University one of the oldest university in India.. I’m part of big joint family and elder one in my generation.

I am keen on writing English, but my past background and profession does not support me much, I am a software consultant, so here I start writing to fulfill hobby passively..

Like most of the people I like to live life happily in my way, but all story never ends happily..The flow of life beyond all obstacles and oracle

About my family I am the eldest daughter of the family (the most responsible designation..he he he..! ) and love all family member and friends.. but most of the time my caring nature was misunderstood although I never give up, I should not…!

I am very thankful to all my friends and those strangers who are helping and supporting me, may God bless them and wish them luck from bottom of my heart……

Well hope it’s enough to introduce myself and my blog. I will be back soon....ALOHAAA