Judgmental Me

I wanted to write on some other topic but my thoughts are stuck on one thing that is Judgment. I believe, Judging is to assume something or to make observations and then sum it up to figure that the person is 'so and so'. Generally when we talk about judging it comes as negative aspect of any person or object.

I read one article this morning about one woman who was stealing things and caught red handed by woman police officer. Interesting thing in this story is, that cop gave her hundred bucks and told other person over there to help the woman rather arresting her. She told the media person that arresting is not the solution if she was single mother and jobless. She helped her to get a job and I think this was the right way to judge that poor woman.

 I’m going some year back for fresh memory to know how we judge a person. It was a small celebration at house. Many people has arrived to celebrate the moment. At host side, there were some kids who did not greet properly (is called Pranam) to their elder guest. I can say that they didn’t pay attention on that particular thing as they were involved themselves in other work.

But this was an issue for elders. They were talking seriously about it and obviously that poor kid was culprit at that time.

I’ve seen many times when people talk about any person, they end up with some judgments on that person. It will not come as surprise if I admit that I brought up in the same environment where people judge each other on every particular thing. 

It is good to talk about good and bad things about any person but judging is not. If you know somebody and have any suggestion about their personality then go straight or if you want to be critic then choose good things to say first.

I always feel good to see those people who have life-long friends, best friends or I can say Chaddy-buddies.  If you judge a friend, tell him/her what you think or assume about them. If you are not then you will disappoint every time and end with no more friends. Reason is, you never know how that person feel when you judge again and again. May be that person is wrong or right but when you judge, your impression is also counted by that person.  This is also applicable on those people who called themselves as well-wishers of yours but mean while judge you at your action or statement.

I am the best example who has less than five or ten friends. I judge the people. Like or dislike them and sometime its vise-verse. Because I've learn to judge people all my life.

Thankfully this perception is getting change somehow and it feels really good.  I am blessed with some people who don’t waste time to judge me. They are critics and love people for who they are.

Alhoaa!!!!!!!!!!